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the gift of an ordinary Valentine’s Day

by Shawni

(These pictures are in no semblance of order to go with the words, but you can puzzle them together:)

Sometimes nights like what we had on Valentine’s night are magical to me.

And it wasn’t because we did anything fancy.

AT ALL.

It was just a regular old night where I was so busied with all the Relief Society texts I was sending out (I had been out of town the week before and wanted so much to give some extra love to those women I love, so I texted all of them a little message) that I didn’t start on our heart-shaped valentine’s pizzas until late, then I couldn’t find the yeast.

Or the cheese.

Or the pesto.

Or corn meal.

Off to a bad start.

But everyone was in the kitchen with me talking and laughing. Dave and Claire doing the “gotta get something from downstairs” mime, Lucy helping shape the dough, the fresh mozzarella cheese I found in the freezer melted all over the microwave and dripped down the counter as I tried to defrost it. Claire and Lucy dancing to what Siri calls “valentine’s songs” at Claire’s request.

Our pizza dough all stuck to the counter and didn’t end up having any real semblance of hearts.

We ate and then cleaned up, all together, with the Moana soundtrack playing loud, the parts that I forgot about “I know who I am” and “those who have gone before” and “I’ve got everything I need inside” that made me tear up as I put away the make-shift valentines stuff I whipped up last night and Claire and I smiled at each other as she did the dishes and sang along with the words.

Claire explaining all about bringing Bo to school for her “senior prank,” (they didn’t let the kids with pets in the school but everyone had a grand time in the parking lot for a little).

Yes, it was just a regular, ordinary night. But it was a night where we were PRESENT. And TOGETHER. And that, to me, is the best Valentine gift you can get.

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KerstinEK February 20, 2022 - 7:09 am

In Germany, Valentine’s Day is a holiday for couples. In the one hand, I’m tempted to adapt your traditions and celebrate the love for all family members (I particularly like the messages on the hearts), in the other hand, I like that it’s a day for my one.

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Shawni February 21, 2022 - 12:08 am

I love that it’s a day for my “one” as well, and I should have mentioned that although we do some family things, Dave and I always make a point to have this day be our own love day. But since we were on an extended “love day” leading up to Valentines, just the two of us, we were ok to add the Relief Society and the kids in on all the love:) (We just got back the night before.).

Please continue to make it a special day for your “one” because in the end, that’s the relationship that has the power to keep all the other relationships going, and it takes work to make it beautiful! Hope you had a wonderful Valentine’s Day!
xoxo

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