Thank you for all the great and insightful comments yesterday.  We have added the “Moment” app to our phones and have made some good adjustments already.  Although I know we have a long way to go, and all kinds of ongoing communication and adjustments to be made, all those comments sure helped in the learning process.  So many great, deliberate, awesome moms out there!
We didn’t touch much on the great uses of technology yesterday so here’s one.  
I listened to this book over the last few weeks on Audible and it was good.
(here…you know it’s good when it has 20,319 five-star reviews…wow)

It was beautifully written and made me think of so many things.

We had a really good book club discussion about it and here were some of the things we talked about:

GRIT.  Man alive those boys sure had it.  Was it because of the time they were born? (the depression) Was it because of the tough things they had to go through?  Was it learned or was it part of who they were in the first place?

I loved all the history woven in.  So interesting to think of pre-war-time Germany and Hitler and his crew, all the sly maneuvers they went through to pull the wool over the world’s eyes as they greeted them there in Germany for the Olympics.  Loved this quote near the end:

“Standing there, watching them, it occurred to me that when Hitler watched Joe and the boys fight their way back from the rear of the field to sweep ahead of Italy and Germany seventy-five years ago, he saw, but did not recognize, heralds of his doom. He could not have known that one day hundreds of thousands of boys just like them, boys who shared their essential natures—decent and unassuming, not privileged or favored by anything in particular, just loyal, committed, and perseverant—would return to Germany dressed in olive drab, hunting him down.” 

I also loved that it mentioned that Louis Zamperini was on the ship with them sailing to Germany.  (I loved reading Unbroken as well.)

So interesting to hear specific stories from the depression…the ones on the sidelines of the “real” story that was being told as well as hearing how Joe Rantz dealt with it all as he had to basically raise himself.

George Yeoman Pocock was my favorite.  Such a wise soul.  I loved his wisdom and his ability to just observe and learn and teach (especially in the instance with Joe Rantz helping him become part of the team).  I loved his quotes at the beginning of each chapter.  One of my favorites:

“It is hard to make that boat go as fast as you want to. The enemy, of course, is resistance of the water, as you have to displace the amount of water equal to the weight of men and equipment, but that very water is what supports you and that very enemy is your friend. So is life: the very problems you must overcome also support you and make you stronger in overcoming them. —George Yeoman Pocock” 

 I loved thinking about the humility each of those boys had to have in order to be part of the strength to row the boat.  No one could be the “star,” they had to work together.  Completely together.

And when they did, I loved that they were able to achieve “swing” which is perfect synchronicity and harmony in rowing which took those boys to the win…and which was such a beautiful analogy to life and in order to get the “swing” we want, we need to seek to harmonize and have humility and that same brotherhood those boys in the boat did.  My brother-in-law related the beauty of the idea of “swing” within a family at our reunion back HERE, and I’ve thought a lot about it ever since (thanks Bob 🙂

I loved learning all about the boat.  And that sport itself.  And learning so much about the will and force it takes to be good at it.

And back to the GRIT thought at the beginning, how can we prepare our own kids to have it?  How can we prepare them to have that kind of resiliency in a world where they’re going to need it?

Lots to ponder.  I love a good book like that.  Thank you Daniel James Brown!

On to Letters to a Young Muslim...


  1. How did you get involved in your book club? Is it church friends, neighborhood friends?? I want to find a good book club, or start my own but not sure who would be interested. I would love to know more details of how yours works.
    Jamie Noto

    1. I have been in this book club pretty much ever since we moved to the desert 16 years ago. It was one my college friends had started with their friends who lived here and invited me to join. Over the years it has evolved a ton, some are LDS, some are not. People have invited neighbors and have moved neighbors and each one adds a pretty unique view to the books we read and I love it.

    1. Yes! "Grit: The power of passion and perseverance" by Angela Duckworth is a great read. In fact, my kids' elementary school principal required all faculty and is asking all parents to read it as well as "Mindset" by Carol Dweck. I love to hear my kids point out when one of us is having a fixed mindset as opposed to a growth mindset.

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