Marriage

I believe marriage is sacred.

And such an incredible privilege to be cradled with care.

Is it easy peasy? No.

Two different people with different personalities merging together to love and cherish each other forever? That’s no small feat.

But I am thankful over and over again for my #1 and strive to make him just that. I am so lucky he is willing to be my partner through all the tough stuff that has come our way. That I get to celebrate with him and mourn with him and grow together through the years.

I wrote about our love story years ago, and so grateful to have it captured here on the blog.
Love Story Part 1 Love Story Part 2 Love Story Part 3
Our “marriaging” is some of the favorite work I do.

  • wedding party overlooking a red rock canyon

    A Wedding on a Red Rock Mountain – Happy 6th Anniversary!

    Today is a six year red rock wedding anniversary for two of my favorites. You see, six years ago, on a red rock plateau…

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  • Two Weddings in Two Days

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  • One Week in Beautiful Portugal – Part 1 of our Anniversary Trip

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  • Shawni and David celebrating thirty years of marriage

    There is Magic in Marriage – Our 30th Anniversary

    I believe there is a special kind of magic in marriage. Sure, it has the power to bind you to one person and give…

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  • A Super Simple Idea for Fixing Miscommunication

    Leading up to Valentine’s Day let’s talk about a secret my wise sister taught me last weekend. It’s a super simple idea for fixing…

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  • Dave's family on a cruise deck

    How to Celebrate a 60th Anniversary — an Alaskan Cruise

    Last month we had a pretty grand opportunity as we learned how to celebrate a 60th anniversary in style…on an Alaskan cruise. You see,…

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  • A New Key to create Better Communication

    Our communication matters! It is what relationships are all about. I recently learned a new key to create better communication

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  • putting your husband as number one

    How do you put your husband first? — Valentine’s edition

    This question has been asked over and over in a variety of different ways over the years on this blog: How do you put…

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  • three ways to practice love leading up to Valentines day

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  • Anniversary Number 3 for two kids heading on a new adventure

    First off, thanks for the continuing tips and advice as we’re still working on the blog design. Really hoping to get some things fixed…

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  • Happy Valentine’s Day! Some questions/phrases to love better

    The other day I came across some questions/phrases to love better. It’s amazing what one little phrase can do to mend or build a…

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  • an anniversary celebration (and a fight) in the mountains

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  • we have been married for TWENTY-SEVEN years

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  • some culture in Los Angeles for our {late} anniversary celebration

    I have to preface this post with a declaration that Dave is not perfect, because it will seem like he is here. Ha! That…

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  • the miracle of marriage and family trajectories

    We didn’t fly back to the desert after we left Switzerland. We flew directly to Utah because there was something special happening there: Yep,…

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  • deliberate wife-hood

    I want to talk about deliberate “wife-hood.” What is that, you may ask? Well, the act of “wifing” is just as important as the…

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  • thoughts on becoming a “deliberate” wife

    Last summer Dave and I took a flight to California for some business.  Upon landing we got in a wing-dinger of a fight.  It…

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  • love story — part 3 (the finale)

    This is supposed to be the Valentine’s edition, but I was too busy soaking up my valentines this weekend I never got to post…

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  • love story — part 2

    In response to the many requests over the last couple years since I wrote part one (back HERE), here you go: So there I…

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  • 50 years of love

    In the beginning of June, these two reached the 50 year mark of marriage: (Are they not the cutest couple ever?) Fifty years of…

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